September, 2017
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Aries
It's all about facing the music, which is a really interesting thing to say in the grand scheme of things since music can be so powerful and influence us in so many ways. Sometimes music can be beautiful, insightful and inspirational, other times it makes us dance, other times it scares us. If you look at the movie Jaws, they chose only two notes to make their villain as scary as it needed to be and an entire generation was intimidated by those sounds. So, what does it really mean to "face the music"? It seems nobody really knows, but suggests it comes from Civil war times when an officer that's being cashiered out is being drummed out. From idioms, we know it means to face the consequences of our actions, and perhaps a little brass band will be playing in the corner when this all happens. Either way, what you're experiencing is the confrontations for things you've been doing, it might mean it's the end of summer and no longer play time, and those summer fling emotions are over and it's time to get serious about the relationship, or you're seeing that what you thought you were attracted to was just an illusion and this person really isn't who you thought they were. Results will vary of course, but the general idea behind this energy is that you're moving from fun and flirty into serious and structured, and some of you won't enjoy that. Mars moves to Virgo on September 5th and we have a Full Moon moving through Aquarius to Pisces as the Mercury retrograde ends and this is going to give you a lot of break up scenarios. Mercury moves to Virgo on September 9th and if you haven't broken up, you'll definitely be changing the tone of your relationship. Venus moves to Virgo on September 19th and we have a New Moon in Virgo which for some is a good thing, more security, more honesty. The Sun moves to Libra on September 22nd bringing more balance and clarity. Pluto Retrograde ends September 28th, ushering in a truce. Mercury moves to Libra on September 29th allowing you to be more pleasing to your partner. Jupiter remains in Libra reminding you relationships make the world go round. Saturn remains in Sagittarius allowing you to explore new adventures. Uranus and Neptune remain retrograde reminding you that anything can happen, so don’t limit yourself.Ascendant: You might face some tough things but you'll soldier on
Taurus
The old adage you get what you give is something you wish was actually true in a lot of cases. You feel like you're giving a lot, being open, honest and inviting, but you feel like sometimes you don't get the things you really want in return. Sometimes it's a lack of respect, sometimes it's lack of communication, and you try to match your partner as much as possible but sometimes you go overboard and you do too much and then you get upset when they don't do just as much in return. And then you're stuck having these silly arguments about who's really invested in the relationship and who isn't and it becomes a competition and it degenerates into this weird thing that's no longer about the journey of two people but about everything else, keeping score and matching wits and who's more romantic. All of these things you need to just forget about, because they're not realistic, they're not helping your relationship, and they're not giving you a sense of calm and tranquility that you need in a relationship. There's truly no sense in arguing, so if you do more, do it because you want to, not because you expect something in return, and don't turn your partner's flaws into an argument because everyone has flaws and it makes them human. Mars moves to Virgo on September 5th and we have a Full Moon moving through Aquarius to Pisces as the Mercury retrograde ends and it's not about what you give or what you get in a relationship. Mercury moves to Virgo on September 9th and it's about the passion you feel, the love you share. Venus moves to Virgo on September 19th and we have a New Moon in Virgo and you're trying not to get into the nitty gritty. The Sun moves to Libra on September 22nd helping you find balance and peace. Pluto Retrograde ends September 28th, ushering in a truce. Mercury moves to Libra on September 29th and you're attempting to please your partner without expectations. Jupiter remains in Libra and you're reminded that all relationships manifest differently. Saturn remains in Sagittarius allowing you to explore new adventures. Uranus and Neptune remain retrograde reminding you that anything can happen, so don’t limit yourself.Ascendant: Don't turn it into a competition
Gemini
You know how sometimes you don't want to do that defining the relationship thing because you fear that the more you do it you become farther away from what you want? It's like, if you say yeah, you'll be someone's boyfriend or girlfriend, there are suddenly a billion expectations attached to it, and you begin to lose the spontaneity factor. It's like now you're expected to do the nice thing for your partner, instead of just, doing it randomly and your partner feeling extra special because you did that thing. You can't always do structure and schedules and responsibility in a relationship because in some way for you that takes away the magic behind it all. You want to be a unicorn, some crazy mystical thing that people always say they wish they could find and then when they do, they're just stunned, mesmerized, entranced, and enthralled by your presence. If you go putting domesticity into a unicorn, if you throw a saddle on them and comb their tangled mane, and tame their wild ways, well, then you have a horse with a tusk, and it's not the same thing as a unicorn anymore. You don't want to be saddled up, or tamed, or untangled, you want to be free to behave how you see fit in a relationship, you want to be spontaneous and interesting and connected, but also a bit of a mystery, because that's where the real fun is at, it's in the mystery. Of course, you'll find that unfortunately, if you're random with your calls, if you don't text goodnight and good morning, if you cancel plans, then you're not exactly a unicorn you're just distracted, and human, and maybe not as interested as you thought you were. Mars moves to Virgo on September 5th and we have a Full Moon moving through Aquarius to Pisces as the Mercury retrograde ends and you want all the magical things to continue. Mercury moves to Virgo on September 9th but your partner wants to know what's really on your mind. Venus moves to Virgo on September 19th and we have a New Moon in Virgo and you can't be ambiguous about it because security is also important. The Sun moves to Libra on September 22nd and you need to balance the magic with the reality. Pluto Retrograde ends September 28th, ushering in a truce. Mercury moves to Libra on September 29th and you're attempting to please your partner Jupiter remains in Libra because you really do care for them. Saturn remains in Sagittarius allowing you to explore new adventures. Uranus and Neptune remain retrograde reminding you that anything can happen, so don’t limit yourself.Ascendant: Maybe being a unicorn isn't all it's cracked up to be?
Cancer
There are times when communication is absolutely one of the most necessary things in your relationship, and then there are times when you just want to be turtle mode and not say anything because you fear that if you speak, someone will dislike what you have to say and it'll cause more ruffled feathers than you're willing to deal with. You don't like it when you accidentally say something to someone and it changes their entire world, and you're stuck having to be the comforting healer to that person. You just want to keep your head down and keep your mouth shut and not complain because you think your relationship is pretty good, and even if your partner isn't 100% everything you ever wanted, often times nobody gets everything they want in a partner, and it's just . . . life. That's life and you have to deal with it, and you're happy enough, satisfied, and content, so when your partner wants to have those discussions about things, you know, what's wrong, what could be better, and starts to play poke the bear in a way that's not sexy or sexually satisfying in the least, you want to run for the hills because you just can't express yourself and be objective and realistic without potentially hurting your partner's feelings. I mean, if they ask for it enough you're going to tell them what you like and don't like, but you really hope that doesn't lead to them saying this is something they need, and walking away from you, because you're happy and there's nothing truly wrong. Mars moves to Virgo on September 5th and we have a Full Moon moving through Aquarius to Pisces as the Mercury retrograde ends and gah, you want to keep your mouth shut. Mercury moves to Virgo on September 9th because anything you say can and will be used against you. Venus moves to Virgo on September 19th and we have a New Moon in Virgo and you can't sugarcoat it, no matter how you say it. The Sun moves to Libra on September 22nd and you just want peace. Pluto Retrograde ends September 28th, ushering in a truce. Mercury moves to Libra on September 29th and you'll continue procrastinating this talk. Jupiter remains in Libra reminding you that friends are important. Saturn remains in Sagittarius allowing you to explore new adventures. Uranus and Neptune remain retrograde reminding you that anything can happen, so don’t limit yourself.Ascendant: Oh, if only you could censor yourself better
Leo
It doesn't happen as often as it used to when you were younger, but you still have those situations whereby you thought everything was going really well, you were being yourself, self-actualizing, being generous, open, available, motivated, and for some rhyme or reason, the person in your life whether a friend, partner, family member, takes offense to something you've done and blocks you from their life. They don't even decide to have a conversation with you, they decide that you want to be the way you are, and a conversation won't change, clarify or otherwise make them feel better about your actions so the only option is to block you and essentially exile you from their life. And every time it happens it hurts. When you were younger and friends in elementary or high school did this to you it was always for petty reasons, and you had family members who could console you or even that coveted best friend who would tell you those people are stupid. Fortunately, in today's world you have the land of social media and the unbiased opinions of strangers or acquaintances whom you friend that can help you regulate some of the negative emotions that crop up when something like this has happened. You never know who it's going to be or when it's going to occur but it does, and there's often nothing you can do to change it or convince the person to be in your life again, they really have to want that, and frankly, if they do tell you what they thought was wrong, you'll likely be offended and be happy they decided to walk away. Mars moves to Virgo on September 5th and we have a Full Moon moving through Aquarius to Pisces as the Mercury retrograde ends and maybe not talking is better, but it still hurts. Mercury moves to Virgo on September 9th and you're trying to figure out where you went wrong. Venus moves to Virgo on September 19th and we have a New Moon in Virgo and you're learning that right and wrong are very objective. The Sun moves to Libra on September 22nd and everyone's opinion differs. Pluto Retrograde ends September 28th, ushering in a truce. Mercury moves to Libra on September 29th and you don't need to change who you are. Jupiter remains in Libra because lots of other people appreciate you just the way you are. Saturn remains in Sagittarius allowing you to explore new adventures. Uranus and Neptune remain retrograde reminding you that anything can happen, so don’t limit yourself.Ascendant: Don't worry about those people, they're not worth it
Virgo
The ambiguity is strong with this one, but only because there are things you're responsible for and obligated to do and your partner knows you well enough to know the love is strong with this one as well but you don't need to be focused on the love 24/7 because that's really not where it's at for you. You've got a lot of other things on your plate, a lot of passions you want to have time for, and so the fact your partner wants to watch a show and talk about life, and tell you their deepest, darkest, secrets, that's just not as important to you as say taking apart the garage and reorganizing everything in there, and getting rid of things you don't need anymore. It's not as important as all those business meetings you need to have, and all those wonderful work hours you need to put in, and it's just not as important as keeping up with your golf game before the season ends. Ahh, your partner knows you love them isn't that good enough? You don't need to express yourself with flowers and chocolate and some cheesy dinner. What you've got will sustain the test of time because you both know how you feel. And yet, we all know that if you don't tend to a garden, weeds grow in and soon the whole thing is overcome with weeds and you've got a lot of work to either remove the weeds or just redo the entire garden. Mars moves to Virgo on September 5th and we have a Full Moon moving through Aquarius to Pisces as the Mercury retrograde ends and you have a flurry of activity, all of it not love related. Mercury moves to Virgo on September 9th and you know your partner will understand because they always do. Venus moves to Virgo on September 19th and we have a New Moon in Virgo and you're seeing the flaws in your relationship plans. The Sun moves to Libra on September 22nd and it's time for groveling. Pluto Retrograde ends September 28th, ushering in a truce. Mercury moves to Libra on September 29th and you need time to please your partner too. Jupiter remains in Libra because relationships help you succeed. Saturn remains in Sagittarius allowing you to explore new adventures. Uranus and Neptune remain retrograde reminding you that anything can happen, so don’t limit yourself.Ascendant: Ignoring the love isn't going to help
Libra
You know that love often means compromise, but sometimes you find yourself wading through the land of sacrifice and you can't remember where you took that wrong left turn and now you're wandering through the forbidden forest hoping that this whole sacrifice thing isn't quite as literal as it sounds. You know that when you stop compromising and start sacrificing for your relationship that it's the beginning of the end, or at least the beginning of a time when you feel trapped, lonely, and upset, like your opinion doesn't matter, like even when you self-actualize and tell your partner what you need, they don't hear you, and so you just go around in circles believing that nothing is going to pan out the way you hoped it would because you apparently are worth less than other things your partner has prioritized in their lives. And that's not how you want to feel. So, you'll likely do your best to race out of this forbidden forest, back to the land of equality and fairness, because that's the only way you're going to stay in a relationship. You'd rather end things than have to live in a reality where your opinion doesn't matter at all and you're forced to do things someone else's way. It's really not free or fair or balanced to you, and you won't last long in that environment. Mars moves to Virgo on September 5th and we have a Full Moon moving through Aquarius to Pisces as the Mercury retrograde ends and funny story, you don't know how you ended up in the land of sacrifice. Mercury moves to Virgo on September 9th but you're trying to find your way out. Venus moves to Virgo on September 19th and we have a New Moon in Virgo because you don't do this, you do fairness and respect. The Sun moves to Libra on September 22nd and if someone or something is more important, adios! Pluto Retrograde ends September 28th, ushering in a truce. Mercury moves to Libra on September 29th and you're weighing pros and cons. Jupiter remains in Libra and you have lots of options. Saturn remains in Sagittarius allowing you to explore new adventures. Uranus and Neptune remain retrograde reminding you that anything can happen, so don’t limit yourself.Ascendant: Don't need to sacrifice to make a relationship work
Scorpio
On a personal note, sometimes it seems like all is lost and there isn't much more you can do to help the situation get better. You'll definitely look at all the options and figure out if there's a way to salvage the damages done, but when it comes to emotions, it's much harder to put your passion and enthusiasm there when you've been hurt, and you really feel like it's time to go off in the corner and lick your wounds. You don't like it when you have to do that because you want to be the forward thinking, knows what you want and goes after it type of person, but there are times when you just can't deal with people and you want to and need to be alone. So, you'll spend more time focusing on work, putting your passion into what you do rather than who you're with because honestly? Sometimes you can bend over backwards, or bend every which way and you still don't get the outcome and results you want from the situation. Sometimes, it takes the other person wanting to fix it as much as you do and if they drop the ball or they're just not as invested, that's going to become very apparent and it's not going to help the situation. You can't cheer for someone or help someone who doesn't want to be helped, who doesn't want to play the game. Sometimes you have to just take your ball with you and find another court, maybe one with people who are fair players, who know the rules and who are willing to go for it. Mars moves to Virgo on September 5th and we have a Full Moon moving through Aquarius to Pisces as the Mercury retrograde ends and you can't help those who don't want help. Mercury moves to Virgo on September 9th and you can't help but feel disappointment. Venus moves to Virgo on September 19th and we have a New Moon in Virgo but you truly need the time alone. The Sun moves to Libra on September 22nd because balance in life is important. Pluto Retrograde ends September 28th, ushering in a truce. Mercury moves to Libra on September 29th and you're not going to be able to please everyone. Jupiter remains in Libra reminding you to continue having faith in people. Saturn remains in Sagittarius allowing you to explore new adventures. Uranus and Neptune remain retrograde reminding you that anything can happen, so don’t limit yourself.Ascendant: Sometimes there's nothing you can do to make it better
Sagittarius
You know your emotions are written all over your face even if you're trying hard to be poker faced right? You have this little secret smile, or this grimace and you just can't deny that you're either really in love or you're really concerned and cautious and thinking that this might not be the right person for you. I think it's just personality traits that force you to be this way, people can usually tell what you're thinking just by looking at you because you have some of the best facial expressions out there. So you can't hide what you're feeling and it's great when you're getting to know someone because they usually can't read your face, so you can have few moments of bliss, but the more someone gets to know you the more they know what your facial expressions are saying and the more they can oust you. You know your best friend is like that, they take one look at you and know you had sex last night, it's just right there, on your face, you don't even have to talk, they already know. So once someone gets to know you even more, it's like they begin to take cues. This is where you find you have to be careful because when you like someone, they really know it and that usually puts you in that weird situation where someone's douchepants side decides to come out and they figure they won you so why bother trying. At the same time, if you don't really like someone they also know and they might distance themselves or just straight up block you all based on what's on your face. Mars moves to Virgo on September 5th and we have a Full Moon moving through Aquarius to Pisces as the Mercury retrograde ends and no matter what you feel, it's on your face. Mercury moves to Virgo on September 9th and you're trying to be logical and talk things through. Venus moves to Virgo on September 19th and we have a New Moon in Virgo but it's hard to listen to what you say v.s. what you project. The Sun moves to Libra on September 22nd and you want to find a good balance, so you don't sabotage yourself. Pluto Retrograde ends September 28th, ushering in a truce. Mercury moves to Libra on September 29th and you're weighing options. Jupiter remains in Libra reminding you there's billions of people on the planet, someone will like you for you. Saturn remains in Sagittarius allowing you to explore new adventures. Uranus and Neptune remain retrograde reminding you that anything can happen, so don’t limit yourself.Ascendant: Just need to find the people you connect with the most
Capricorn
It's funny when you have so much zest for life the things you can get in order. It's like you end up buying a new car, and organizing your entire house and making love to your partner all the time in various steamy ways because you just have so much appreciation and happiness and direction in life. You're not conflicted or too invested in a work project, you're learning the value of balance, and that it takes more than just having a great time at work to make life enjoyable. So, because you've got the work thing all settled and you're feeling confident and at ease about it, this has allowed you to take your focus off it for a little bit, and you've got some time to spend putting your personal life back together. That probably also means doing boring things like laundry, but it means fun things like upgrading your vehicle and buying a boat. Boats are cool you could go for a weekend trip with your partner, forget about the rest of the world for a while. You need times like that too, so don't get hung up on the details, and don't just tend to the boring things in your personal life. I mean sure, the garage probably needs to be cleaned out but you can do that later. Mars moves to Virgo on September 5th and we have a Full Moon moving through Aquarius to Pisces as the Mercury retrograde ends and you've got the work thing being sorted so now it's time for cuddles. Mercury moves to Virgo on September 9th and maube a trip to the lake to close down the cabin for the season. Venus moves to Virgo on September 19th and we have a New Moon in Virgo and you just need time to kick back and enjoy life. The Sun moves to Libra on September 22nd because life isn't all about work. Pluto Retrograde ends September 28th, ushering in a truce. Mercury moves to Libra on September 29th and you're procrastinating on that garage clean up. Jupiter remains in Libra and maybe if you did a barbeque your friends would help. Saturn remains in Sagittarius allowing you to explore new adventures. Uranus and Neptune remain retrograde reminding you that anything can happen, so don’t limit yourself.Ascendant: Ahh, now you have the right ideas about life!
Aquarius
You know how the saying goes, you did this to yourself, and now there's no turning back, nothing further you can do, you made the bed and now you have to lie in it. The good news about this is that, if you said good things, then you're likely going to reap the rewards of the good things you did. Future you will completely love past you, and they'll have an awesome time enjoying all the things they worked hard for. However, sometimes you have shadow you that just wants to mess things up, so shadow you begins to say mean and insensitive and emotionally detached things just to see what will happen, and then shadow you sits back and laughs while future you has to try to sort out all the things that were said and swear that some of it just wasn't true, and beg for all the forgiveness in the world. It's funny how you really do make your bed and then have to lie in it so if you make the bed right, and you don't eat chips and cookies and popcorn in your bed and you clean your sheets and stuff, there's a good chance your bed is going to be pretty awesome to sleep in. However, if you took all those cookies to bed, you're probably going to be rolling around on crumbs all night and be super uncomfortable about it, and if someone else is in your bed you'll have to explain all those cookie crumbs to them and apologize for making them uncomfortable too, and it's just not a good situation no matter how you look at it. So, here's hoping you made your bed well and now you get to reap the rewards. Mars moves to Virgo on September 5th and we have a Full Moon moving through Aquarius to Pisces as the Mercury retrograde ends and you really hope past you didn't say something future you will regret. Mercury moves to Virgo on September 9th and half the battle in life is keeping shadow you under control. Venus moves to Virgo on September 19th and we have a New Moon in Virgo and shadow you is a jerk. The Sun moves to Libra on September 22nd and you just want peace and love and happiness. Pluto Retrograde ends September 28th, ushering in a truce. Mercury moves to Libra on September 29th and to make your partner happy. Jupiter remains in Libra because you like it when people like you. Saturn remains in Sagittarius allowing you to explore new adventures. Uranus and Neptune remain retrograde reminding you that anything can happen, so don’t limit yourself.Ascendant: Shadow you really is a jerk.
Pisces
It's really all about who you are and how much of who you are you allow other people to see. You've always been the quintessential iceberg and some people truly appreciate that about you, that you're very simple and easy going and that while they know there's more to you, it's also very easy to take you at face value and not to worry about the deeper things going on. You're not one to project your problems onto other people, or stir up someone else's life simply because you're feeling like crap about what's happening to you. You'll internalize your feelings and handle them in your own way because you don't want to be a burden on anyone else. In some relationships that works, but only if you're with someone who's selfish and really doesn't care what happens to you. When you begin a relationship with someone who is empathetic, compassionate, and who really wants to see all of the iceberg, you have issues with opening up that side of you, sharing what's bothering you, being talkative and ranting, or venting about what you think is wrong with life in general. This really makes it hard to connect with you on certain levels, and really forces you to attract the wrong people at times. You'll see how this is going to both hurt and confuse you, but hopefully you'll find a way to fix it before it's too late. Mars moves to Virgo on September 5th and we have a Full Moon moving through Aquarius to Pisces as the Mercury retrograde ends and unlike other people you handle your problems internally. Mercury moves to Virgo on September 9th which sometimes makes people think you're not letting them in. Venus moves to Virgo on September 19th and we have a New Moon in Virgo and your partner would really love to help you and be there for you if you'd let them. The Sun moves to Libra on September 22nd and you're trying to dig deeper. Pluto Retrograde ends September 28th, ushering in a truce. Mercury moves to Libra on September 29th because you want your partner to be happy. Jupiter remains in Libra and you realize it's important to open up. Saturn remains in Sagittarius allowing you to explore new adventures. Uranus and Neptune remain retrograde reminding you that anything can happen, so don’t limit yourself.Ascendant: Sometimes you can't be the iceberg
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