Blessings Cristina,
I'm very much in love with this guy but we've been having some communication issues for a while. One minute he acts like he's very much in love with me and the next he's acting cold towards me. Why is he acting that way towards me when I haven't done anything wrong? He treated me different from all the rest; I thought he was my soul mate because we had such much in common. Do we have a real chance of being together once we work through the communication issues or should I walk away from this situation? Because I'm tired of going through these changes I just want him to be open and honest instead of lying and hiding how he truly feels about me. We haven't talked to each other in two weeks, we met online, I wasn't looking for love but somehow fell in love with him. And now I don't know what to do about the situation. I really care and love him I would like our friendship to grow stronger but it can't if I'm feeling one way and he's feeling another way. He flirts and talk to other women. How can I be his one and only woman? I'm very grateful for any advice because I'm very confused. Thank You.
Blessings my dear and thank you for submitting your question.
If your guy blows hot and cold, depending on how his day's been or what the weather’s like, chances are that he is more absorbed with his own needs and feelings than he is with yours. A man who loves you sticks by you, there is NO confusion because communication is open. This man is not your soul mate but someone you need to "experience" to gain more wisdom and to really recognize the soul mate when he does come into your life. His talking to other women is a big red flag. It's like he is keeping you on the sidelines while he continues to shop around for someone else. That is not worth hanging in there for. You are worth way more than that.
Your own spirit is showing you, you need to walk away from this situation. Nothing here is benefitting you. He has not seen who you really are, what you have to offer the world, nor has he seen the kind of human being you are. A true soul mate will SEE you -- your spirit, the essence that is you. He would call every day, find ways to be in your presence, and figure out ways to make a future with you. Your guy is doing none of this.
He strings you along to keep you "just in case" he has no one else to talk to or chat with, or be with at the moment. Also notice how all conversations end up being all about him, his life, his world, and his issues. Again, not a good relationship or match for you. You can do better.
Do what your angels are already telling you and let him go. Get off the rollercoaster ride and having to deal with all the changes he puts you through. It just puts you at a low vibration and makes it hard to be happy. Let go and be happy again, like you were before you met him. Love and light!
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Much love and light,
Cristina
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