Before we can get into how to attract your soul mate, first we need to understand what and who they are. Your soulmate, the very one that is meant for you, will be your partner.
They will be your best friend, your lover, your sunshine, your everything.
And it doesn't go away. That feeling that you have with them early continues well into your later years. The magic never goes away. It's something that many of us aspire to achieve, with others well into wonderful relationships already.
Finding your soulmate is not so much a task that one needs to apply their will, strength or energy towards. It's something that happens naturally when you are BOTH ready to be as one.
The question then becomes, not finding them. But rather being prepared as best and quickly as you can so that you can enjoy that joy that cannot be express by words alone.
That oneness doesn't happen easily.
In fact, soul mates deal with a lot of the same problems that everyone else in relationships do. Being with your soulmate doesn't guarantee happy days forever. As long as you have a personality that doesn't appeal to every single person on the planet, you are bound to find ways to annoy each other to the point that you'll want anything BUT to kiss them.
In order to achieve a proper state of being whereby you can enjoy each other’s company, grow and evolve together as one, you need to be as ready as possible.
Step 1 - Cut the exes already.
A lot of us like to hang on to our exes in some way shape or form. We may think that we are over them. But the truth is that if you continue to communicate, share, find yourself sometimes thinking about them, longing for their company, you're keeping yourself from joining your soul mate. Life demands that we take bold steps with confidence and face our greatest fears in order to receive the greatest rewards. There is no chance that you'll be able to keep your exes in your contact list and still meet who you are meant to be with.
You've got to cut ties with your past relationship. No bones about it.
Step 2 - Lose the baggage
Someone hurt you? Did they cheat on you? Did your last two partners find strange and imaginative ways to put your heart through a meat grinder? Welcome! We here in the human race feel your pain. Get help, get over it and be clear. You will not be able to join with your soulmate if you have a raging hang up for someone who's out of your life.
You need to be ready for the amount of love coming your way. It takes up a whole heart and then some. There is no room for resentments. You cannot be in a position where you are waiting for karma to find it's target and finally give you validation that you were wronged.
Forgiving is more about you than it ever is about the person who hurt you.
Step 3 - Find inner peace
Having a lot of bad days lately? Can't seem to be happy? Is everyone out to annoy you?
Sounds like you're having a bad day/week/month. How open and receptive do you think you would be to true love? Unless you're at peace, you'll miss out on the cues around you and walk blindly by who is meant for you. Be ready, be happy, be receptive to good things
coming your way. ALL THE TIME. Keep looking up.
Good things come from above. Hands open, arms wide, thank you for today.
Step 4 - Take care of YOU
We all want our partners to be living examples of health, vitality and good looks. We often overlook our own needs and feel that what we look and feel like really shouldn't have any bearing on our soulmate because they will love us for we are. That's true to a great degree. What's not true is that you can't walk straight out of bed, out the door and expect anything good to happen to you. Take care of you, in and out.
When you do, your mood will improve, you'll be happier, more attractive, and will radiate much more positive energy and vibrations.
Like attracts like.
Step 5 - Grow
Often, I meet people who ask why they haven't after all of these years found their soulmates. A lot of the time it's because they are stuck in old cycles, haven't really progressed anywhere in the past few years and aren't where they need to be emotionally or mentally. If everything around you has been more or less the same, it's time for drastic change.
Go skydiving or join a yoga class. Learn a new skill or start your dream business.
Create opportunities for growth & reward so that in turn the universe can fill in the blanks.
Step 6 - Be open to anything and everything
The universe has a way of hiding the best things in plain sight. Beyond our perspectives and reach. Hidden among the things we've learned to dislike the most.
Something that you don't understand, a topic that you've often dismissed as not worthy of your time could very well be the place, people, topic that you need to investigate in order to understand yourself better and find the very soul that you've spent a lifetime looking for.
I'm not saying that you need to drastically switch your beliefs and way of life. I'm saying that you need to truly open your eyes to the realities around you and look at everything from a more curious perspective.
Dismiss nothing, question everything, seek understanding above all else.
Step 7 - Be a beacon
Make it easier for your soulmate to find you. Shine bright with love from within. Share your happiness and show respect to all living things. Be charitable where you can and give of your time in others. Never put yourself last but always put another first. Live the life that you were destined to live. Your soulmate is meant to teach, heal, help and complete you.
They can't make you change, make you happy, make you better or make you motivated. They also have needs that you will have to try and fill. You will be called upon to teach, heal and complete them. That can only be done if you have first found the love of self deep within your heart. Only then can you truly be able to show true love to them.
Your soulmate could have been someone that you already knew, that you lost long ago, that you've just found again. Someone that you don't know yet, who you've never met, who you could never in a million year imagine being with. Your soulmate will be perfectly tailored to you.
What happens next? Only some of the best times of your life.
Are you ready?
Contributing Advisor: Divine Messenger Zuco