Dear Cristina:
I enjoy the wise and spiritual advice that you offer other people and I thought I would contact you for help. I finally ended an engagement about a year ago (after many break-ups and reconciliations). I really thought this was the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. All and all, during my life I've had a total of 3 serious relationships, all of which ended badly and in the end, were not right for me.
I've been told that I am attractive and look much younger than my age. I'm educated, kind and spiritual and I long to have a soulful connection with a partner. When do you see this happening for me, if ever? Also, is there any particular place that I should go to, so I can find this person? I feel lost and I am not sure where to go or what to do to make this happen.
Thank you very much.
Sincerely, Alona
Blessings Alona!
Thank you for allowing me to answer your question. It seems you've been destined to meet up with several "twin flames or karmic souls" in this lifetime, but have not met the soulmate yet. These twin flames come into your life to finish up something perhaps from a past life. They are part of your soul group, people who come into your life to teach you something about yourself and help you gain wisdom. They are part of your spiritual journey to a higher self. Throughout these experiences, you may have gained more self-respect, become more self-sufficient and actually happy with who you are. You've overcome a lot and through it all, you've come up better than you think.
We don't always get to find a soulmate in this lifetime, that one person where you are fully in sync with, but it doesn't mean your situation is hopeless. Far from it, you already know what you have to offer the world, not just in looks and education but in spirit. You ask if you should go somewhere to find this "person" that you sense, deep within you is "out there" waiting for you. This is what you have to stop. You must stop looking. All you have to do is be in the present moment and enjoy life as it comes to you, enjoy what YOU bring forth to life.
Fall in love with yourself and life again, and LOVE, the kind you seek, will find you! Being a spiritual person, you already know that faith, or just believing something is going to happen beyond a shadow of a doubt, is enough to "let go" of trying to find the soulmate, and just allowing him to come. With faith, worry goes out the window. You don't have to worry about your soulmate coming because you know already he is coming, maybe not when you want him, but he'll be there right on time. So focus on the love you have now, on your life, focus on having fun and bringing joy to life again. That's all you really have to do.
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Much love and light,
Cristina
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