Dear Cristina,
I believe in spirituality. I am Sharmila, and my worry is that I never seem to succeed in life -- in education, in work, or even in love. As I'm going on 45, my worries are becoming more and more... I would like to know if I will meet someone soon for marriage. I'm also taking some secretarial courses so as to find a better job. Can you tell me if I will get a good job where I can carry on with my studies? Will I succeed? And please tell me, at what age am I going to get married? Is it in my destiny? And what about conceiving a baby -- will I?
Thank you -- Sharmila
Blessings Sharmila,
Thank you for submitting your question. You talk about how you've failed in your life, but all I see are the accomplishments you've made and the kindnesses you have shown others. Your true self, the self that is always helping others, is where you have succeeded best.
The future doesn't just happen to us, Sharmila; we are co-creators of our reality and our future. We create based on our "intentions." Your intentions are to do well in school, to find love, and get a good job where you can meet your goals. The problem is that sometimes we don't believe we can accomplish something or it becomes too difficult, or we have too many obstacles. I see that obstacles have stood in your way. Perhaps instances of bad luck or bad thoughts, either way it gets in the way of our best possible future.
You will do well in the secretarial courses. I see love coming into your life and marriage. But you'll have to see it too to make it happen. You are always evolving and as you do the things you've been seeking will come to you. You just have to believe it and see it in your life.
In the spirit world we are responsible for all babies that are born. We are their parents in the spirit. I cannot tell if you will conceive a child, but I can tell that you will give a child love and a child will love you back. How that comes about will be entirely up to you.
May you have a blessed and happy holiday!
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