Your Monthly Love scope

You like sticking to the things you know, people you can trust with your life, partners you‘ve been with for decades, friends who have always had your back. You don‘t want to change the status quo, and you don‘t want to have to reinvent your heart, trying to make it feel something, any type of love for people who you haven‘t known for a long time. You‘re very cautious when it comes to letting new people into your heart, and while on the surface you‘re the type to give the benefit of the doubt and do as much for someone else as you would for someone you‘ve known for twenty years, you are also the type to leave these connections behind when they don‘t work out. The new moon on June 4th in Gemini has you backing off from new friends and potential new lovers, not wanting to get involved. Mercury moves into its rulership sign Gemini on June 12th and it seems like if you‘re in a new relationship you need to know everything about this other person now. Almost like you want to create twenty years of history in a weekend. Neptune goes retrograde on June 13th and over the next few months you‘ll be seeing sides of people both in your life long term and new that you weren‘t expecting to see. Venus moves into Cancer on June 17th putting the focus on your needs, not what other people want from you. Saturn squares Neptune on June 17th, and you‘ll likely experience a big revelation of someone‘s true colors. The Sun moves into Cancer on June 20th and you want the type of relationship that provides healing and comfort. Mercury moves into Cancer on June 29th, making you more private and sensual. Mars retrograde ends on June 29th and Uranus goes retrograde, showing you that anything can happen, even things you don‘t want.Ascendant: Don‘t expect to be over the moon in love.

You really don‘t want to love the whole world, but you have varying degrees of liking people, and the fact that you can‘t fall head over heels and experience that fantastical type of love, is something that makes some people think you‘re an emotionless drone. I guess the trouble is that you like intellectual stimulation. You like stories, conversation, funny jokes, clever puns, and you don‘t care for the weepy, intense, lovey dovey romance stuff that everyone else says is the bees knees. You like connections that are based on logic, you like someone because of their interests, their mind, their personality, but you can also see that people are just people and everyone has traits you don‘t like. The new moon on June 4th in Gemini making you impulsive and inconsistent. You won‘t know who‘s company you enjoy more, someone you‘re sleeping with or someone you just hang out and have great conversations with. Mercury moves into its rulership sign Gemini on June 12th and your focus turns to friends, you don‘t care about sexual encounters as much as getting to know people. Neptune goes retrograde on June 13th blurring lines between what‘s real and what isn‘t. Be careful because someone could be lying to you, and you could be believing it. Venus moves into Cancer on June 17th and Saturn squares Neptune, these planets being like water and oil and you can‘t deal with frivolous, superficial people in your life. You‘re bound to cut ties with people who aren‘t really there for you. The Sun moves into Cancer on June 20th, really amping up the fantastical atmosphere, funny timing since you likely just said goodbye to the person you can be physically intimate with. Expect to want sex all of a sudden and have nobody to have it with. Mercury moves into Cancer on June 29th while Mars retrograde ends and Uranus goes into retrograde. You may find yourself going back on your word and returning to toxic people, just to get what you want out of them. Ascendant: Gonna get yours!

Usually when you don‘t know what to do about your feelings, tough confrontations in relationships, or uncertainty about where you stand with someone you back right off. You‘re the type that needs reassurance, consistency and affection in a relationship and when you start bickering, or tension creeps in, you have a tendency to run for the hills. You may notice this month that you feel like you‘re hanging onto the idea of something, but you‘re not actually able to tangibly experience that someone, and this is making your life feel a lot like an emotional roller coaster you don‘t want to be on, because at some point you‘re just going to puke all over the other person in the roller coaster with you, and well if you haven‘t noticed, puking on someone is a great way to make them dislike you. The new moon on June 4th in Gemini has you feeling upset about the imperfections within people. Why can‘t people just do the good things, and not be jerks? Mercury moves into its rulership sign Gemini on June 12th, giving you the sense that you need to walk away. You can‘t make someone love you and that‘s really not the point. You get it, you‘re not easy to love, but must everyone you‘re with remind you of that fact? Neptune goes retrograde on June 13th which may have you jumping into a fantastical romantic adventure that‘s completely unhealthy for you. Venus moves into Cancer on June 17th only adding fuel to the fire, you‘ll be walking away from people you can‘t handle, but Saturn squares Neptune on June 17th, these planets being like water and oil and you‘ll likely do something or someone reckless just to feel something. The Sun moves into Cancer on June 20th and oh my god you want to be at home, you want people to leave you alone, and you want to cry about the stupid thing you did. Mercury moves into Cancer on June 29th while Mars retrograde ends on and Uranus retrograde begins. This energy contradicts itself within you because on the one hand you want to be alone, but you also want to express your creativity and do something, so possibly angry poetry, art, writing songs? It‘ll be deep whatever you end up producing.Ascendant: Nothing like a Cancer scorned.

If you had a theme song it would be "I love myself today" by Bif Naked. The biggest mistake your romantic partners and even close friends have made is thinking that you need them more than they need you. The truth is, all you need is yourself. You‘re both your best friend and worst enemy depending on the situation. You can lift yourself up when you‘re down, you can back yourself up in a fight, and hey, if you didn‘t want to have sex with yourself, why would anyone else want to? So it‘s unfortunate when you end up in these manipulative situations whereby your significant other or friend thinks they can bring drama into your life, and get what they want out of you. The thing is, you shut people down who do that to you, you move on and you don‘t look back. You‘re very selective of the people whose negativity you‘re willing to tolerate. So there‘s a new moon on June 4th in Gemini and you want to enjoy your life, you don‘t want to argue with anyone over petty things. Mercury moves into its rulership sign Gemini on June 12th and it seems the debates keep coming your way. You don‘t like this because if life was about winning you‘d be at the top. Neptune goes retrograde on June 13th and you begin seeing the real reasons people are pitting themselves against you. Venus moves into Cancer on June 17th while Saturn squares Neptune on the same day, so there‘s this sense that you‘re damned if you do, damned if you don‘t. You can‘t play the game to win this round. The Sun moves into Cancer on June 20th and you‘re just not going to let in the drama anymore. You‘ll do what makes you happy and people will have to accept that if they‘re not making you happy, you‘re not going to be in their life. On June 29th, Mercury moves into Cancer, the Mars retrograde ends and the Uranus retrograde begins. For you this means letting others prove themselves to you while focusing on your own creative pursuits. Ascendant: Zero tolerance.

You really don‘t care what‘s going on with someone, the battle they‘re trying to fight in their life, if they can‘t act with common courtesy and decency. You have all the sympathetic bones in your body for the people in your life who are trying their hardest and suffering on the front lines, but for the people who whine and complain when there‘s nothing for them to be upset about, you don‘t have any sympathy whatsoever for them. People need to be grateful for what they have in life, they have to be appreciative and respectful of what others are doing for them, some of them need to open their eyes and see how good they‘ve really got it. If they can‘t do that, you feel like you really can‘t help them. So the new moon on June 4th in Gemini has you stepping back and reassessing just how much you‘re putting out. You know they say you need to put out 20% work for 80% of your results, but you‘ve been doing more like 80% for 40% results, and you‘re just sick of the ratio. Mercury moves into its rulership sign Gemini on June 12th and you want to put your foot down, really get to the bottom of why people in your life are acting the way they are, maybe there‘s something you overlooked. Neptune goes retrograde on June 13th and this is going to help you discern the facts from fiction. Venus moves into Cancer on June 17th while Saturn squares Neptune on June 17th and there‘s friction here, there‘s putting your foot down and making a decision, and being emotional about it but being prepared for the consequences. The Sun moves into Cancer on June 20th and you‘re withdrawing from everyone. You need to be alone. On June 29th, Mercury moves into Cancer, the Mars retrograde ends and the Uranus retrograde begins. So you care what the people closes to you think, but you‘re not interested in doling out punishments. You just want things to work out for the better and for these people to show they care about you.Ascendant: You need appreciation for what you do.

You really want to believe in the spark of new romances, or in the refreshing of a current connection, you want to believe that your partner has learned how you like to be treated, and what truly makes you happy in life, and that they‘re willing to be there for you, by your side, help you slay your dragons, help you find the confidence you need to succeed in the big bad world, and be that one person who unlike everyone else, truly proved they could be everything to you. You really want to believe all the problems have evaporated, but there‘s that weird nagging voice in the back of your head telling you to be careful because all that glitters is not gold. So there‘s a new moon on June 4th in Gemini and this has you on the top of the world, doing romantic things, and/or nice things to pamper yourself. Mercury moves into its rulership sign Gemini on June 12th, giving you a sense of adventure, the need to travel and do something amazing with your partner, like some epic romantic vacation. But then Neptune goes retrograde on June 13th and while it‘ll hit slowly, not all at once you‘ll begin to see the grinds in the coffee cup, you‘ll be like the Princess and the Pea, being able to feel that very small pea under twenty mattresses. Venus moves into Cancer on June 17th and you don‘t want to admit the truth about the relationship. You‘d rather not test its limits in a foreign land. Saturn squares Neptune on June 17th, these planets being like water and oil, and no doubt you‘re going to find yourself canceling or changing plans based on your moods. The Sun moves into Cancer on June 20th and you feel confused, you don‘t know if any problems are actually solved, or if they‘ll just keep showing their ugly colors as time goes on. On June 29th, Mercury moves into Cancer, the Mars retrograde ends and the Uranus retrograde begins. This has your intuition coming back in full force, pulling the shell around yourself, and deciding that it‘s much cheaper if you go on the adventure by yourself than with anyone else anyway.Ascendant: Why should a relationship ruin your fun?

It‘s very rare that you have the wisdom to hold your tongue, back away from petty arguments, and spend your time more wisely coming up with ways you can better support your partner, but I guess all this Gemini energy is good for something! You really don‘t want the arguments, the petty disagreements, the competition, who‘s better than whom, and so on. You just can‘t handle the way you feel when you strike back and hurt the people closest to you because the thing is, hurting them means hurting you, and all of that is a vicious cycle that leaves you feeling like the victim when it‘s very likely you dealt a blow or two yourself. You wonder why sometimes people just don‘t want to engage with you, this month it seems like your loved ones are trying to push your buttons to see how far they can take it until you snap. You know that elastic band game isn‘t a good one, you never know when it‘ll snap back and hit someone in the eye. And let‘s face it, it‘s all fun and games until someone loses a limb, or until the argument crescendos and bam, car accident. So the new moon on June 4th in Gemini has you making better choices with your words. Instead of saying something insensitive you‘ll say nothing at all. Mercury moves into its rulership sign Gemini on June 12th and you go into deep observer mode, wanting to listen, absorb, and withhold judgment until you‘ve truly understood the people closest to you. Neptune goes retrograde on June 13th which until it goes direct on November 19th you‘ll be an astute observer of the world. Venus moves into Cancer on June 17th just as Saturn squares Neptune, these planets being like water and oil. If there‘s any day this month where shutting you mouth can help you out of a really bad situation, this is the day. Do not engage, no matter how much you want to. The Sun moves into Cancer on June 20th and you need some alone time, to process, to be by yourself. On June 29th, Mercury moves into Cancer, the Mars retrograde ends and the Uranus retrograde begins. This gives your intuition a boost, has you being more active in your relationship, but creatively finding ways to survive. Ascendant: Every house of cards can topple over.

You often wonder if you‘re just fooling yourself. Nobody could possibly be interested in someone like you, someone who‘s so different, so go with the flow, so plain, normal, tedious. You can‘t figure out why anyone would want to be in a relationship with you, what you can even give to a relationship, why people close to you believe in you. By that same token, you sometimes wonder if this is all just a game, a cruel practical joke, a plot to get you to give up your deepest, darkest secrets so someone who claims to love you can use them against you. The problem is that you don‘t really have deep secrets, you‘re pretty surface friendly, what you see is what you get. The things that make you a good person aren‘t skin deep, they go right to your core, so it‘s very hard for people to find something they don‘t like about you, because you are genuinely yourself all of the time. It might be the insecurity that is your worst quality, and maybe vanity if that insecurity has you obsessed with how other people see you. So this new moon on June 4th in Gemini has you contemplating all these aspects of yourself, good, bad, ugly. And you‘ll talk it out with a close friend or romantic partner, hoping to bounce ideas off of them about who you are, what you‘re worth, etc. etc. Mercury moves into its rulership sign Gemini on June 12th and this internal study of self continues, you really need to know what it is you can give to a relationship, what you bring to the table, and until you fill that blank space, you‘re going to feel like you can‘t be in a serious relationship. Neptune goes retrograde on June 13th whiuch over the next few months is going to make the introspective look at you deepen, and you‘ll learn things about yourself you didn‘t know were true. Venus moves into Cancer on June 17th just as Saturn squares Neptune on June 17th, and though you spend most of the month focused on internal, this day has you focused on something external, someone who might be very harsh to you and end a relationship or friendship badly. The Sun moves into Cancer on June 20th which is great because you just want to hole up, watch Netflix and eat ice cream anyway. On June 29th, Mercury moves into Cancer, the Mars retrograde ends and the Uranus retrograde begins. You hate caring what others think, but it‘s hard to turn that off, so you medicate with mindless entertainment and sleep. Ascendant: Know thyself.

You really want your relationships to behave like cats. Cats don‘t need you, other than to feed them, let them outside when they want to hunt, praise them when they bring dead things to you, clean up after all the messes they make and cuddles them when they demand it. Low maintenance, people who can handle themselves, people who are just as busy as you, or people who can be your human love slave are the best kinds of relationships for you. I‘m sure we could also add some emotional insecurity, or inferiority complexes somewhere in there, because with most of you being over achievers in life, there‘s often nothing anyone can do to catch up to your long list of accomplishments. That being said, you truly don‘t have time for people who need you on a constant basis, so some independence in your partner is essential. This new moon on June 4th in Gemini has you giving preferential treatment to certain people in your life, and ignoring others. Mercury moves into its rulership sign Gemini on June 12th and it‘s like you‘ve become a news columnist (if you‘re not one already) needing to know absolutely every detail of what happens in your loved ones lives. Being interested is good, being nosy makes it seems like you‘re accusing or suspecting someone of cheating. Neptune goes retrograde on June 13th and that‘s going to have all the truths coming to the surface in the next few months anyway. You don‘t have to sleuth, just wait. Venus moves into Cancer on June 17th and Saturn squares Neptune on June 17th, and you won‘t be able to tell what‘s a lie and what isn‘t. That‘s a problem because you despise liars. The Sun moves into Cancer on June 20th and you start doling out the benefit of the doubt to certain people. On June 29th, Mercury moves into Cancer, the Mars retrograde ends and the Uranus retrograde begins. Expect to feel insecure, like someone is pulling the wool over your eyes, but also expect to stew about it, unable to take action until there‘s concrete proof.Ascendant: If only your mate were more like a cat right?

You don‘t have any advice for people in relationships, you can barely manage your own relationships. You can‘t give advice to the people you‘re in love with because they don‘t listen to you, they don‘t understand the full potential of your genius and it‘s hard to give anyone advice when you‘re biased to the advice you‘re giving. When anything you say can be misconstrued as being self-serving. Oh get over yourself, everything you do in a relationship is self-serving, everything everyone does in a relationship is for the benefit of themselves, nobody ever decided to be with someone out of the goodness of their heart, even if they knew it wasn‘t reciprocated everyone at some point believed they could change the other person, or the other person would learn to love them back just as much. You‘re already selfish by being with someone, so get over it and say what you need to say. The New moon on June 4th in Gemini has you thinking a lot, but not saying a lot. So expect your loved ones to be confused. Mercury moves into its rulership sign Gemini on June 12th and you don‘t know what you want, so you don‘t know what advice to give, the advice that helps them most, or the advice that gets you what you want? Neptune goes retrograde on June 13th and if it‘s not already clear, you don‘t know what you want, so seeing someone‘s true colors means nothing to you because what if you do want their alternate personality more than their primary personality? What if what turns you on isn‘t how they act everyday but how they really are on the inside? Venus moves into Cancer on June 17th and you have some serious pros and cons lists to make, you‘re bound to get all deep in thought to figure this out. Saturn squares Neptune on June 17th, these planets being like water and oil, but that‘s great for you because you can easily discern what‘s possible and what isn‘t. The Sun moves into Cancer on June 20th helping you slow down a bit and smell the roses. On June 29th, Mercury moves into Cancer, the Mars retrograde ends and the Uranus retrograde begins. You‘ll still be stuck in this mess for a while, but you‘re going to care more about what your partner thinks of things as well.Ascendant: Well it does take two to tango!

You have very specific ideals when it comes to love, and if those ideas aren‘t met you‘re bound to lose interest in a partner at any given point in time. You don‘t stick around for the hard stuff unless you feel so compassionate about a person that you‘re willing to save them from themselves. Usually you‘re so concerned with saving yourself that you trust other people have it together much more than you do. Your heart is hidden behind this protective layer that even when you let people in, you don‘t ever let them hold your heart in their hands. You just can‘t because you realize that even though you can create situations that seem almost fairytale-like in nature, everyone has to return to the "real world" at some time or another. You can‘t keep creating and upholding that fantasy forever. And you don‘t like it when the pressure to continue creating the facades is there because sometimes you want to believe that what you have with someone is actually real, and not just an illusion. So this new moon on June 4th in Gemini has you feeling disjointed, torn between being genuinely honest, and superficial. Mercury moves into its rulership sign Gemini on June 12th and you definitely need to put up a mask while you tinker around behind the scenes, seeing what‘s really inside your heart. Neptune goes retrograde in its rulership planet Pisces on June 13th so all those illusions you‘ve created are cracking, falling away, and making you feel naked. Venus moves into Cancer on June 17th while Saturn squares Neptune, these planets behaving like the devil and angel on your shoulder. They don‘t want you to be able to see what‘s real, but as you live in a fantasy world of your own, this is going to make you see the world in crystal clear HD. The Sun moves into Cancer on June 20th and you want to let yourself live the magic for a bit longer before shutting it all down. On June 29th, Mercury moves into Cancer, the Mars retrograde ends and the Uranus retrograde begins. Mars has you adhering to the truth and only the truth, while Mercury has your intuition on high gear. Nobody will lie to you without you knowing it.Ascendant: You‘re like a human lie detector!