Read to discover if you have dated one or a few of these types of men before!
1. The Ambitious Man
You were hooked by his drive and his passion. He has a five year plan and he’s planning to use it to achieve some great things in his lifetime. You find yourself getting excited when your friends or family asks what he does, because you get such a rush seeing their impressed reactions when they hear about him. It is easy for you to imagine your future with him, because he has his future all planned out.But after he cancels for the 10th time on dinner because he got stuck at work, you begin to wonder if you are one of his priorities. Then as he discusses his life goals to you for what feels like the millionth time, you realize that he simply isn’t the man for you.
2. Sweet and Emotional Nice Guy
You were introduced to him by a friend who kept telling you “Wow, he is just so nice!” and you were intrigued. Everything about him seems perfect and you can’t wait to introduce him to your friends and family, because you just know they will love his sweet personality and manners. He always gives you compliments and sends you the sweetest good morning texts. For the first time, you realize that you are with someone who truly appreciates you and you can see yourself getting serious with him.He seems like the perfect guy in your eyes until he sheds one too many tears. You are suddenly shocked by how serious he gets so fast. It’s hard to end it with a guy that seemed so perfect, but once you do, you feel like a weight has been lifted from your shoulders.
3. The Intellectual Hipster
You might have met him at a café because that is one of his most frequented places. You were turned on physically by his cool look and mentally stimulated by how smart he sounds when he talks about the latest book he is reading. Conversation always seems to be easy with him and you feel like you have finally met a guy who you can talk about any subject. You love the fact that he can understand all of your nerdy references and he seems to take a special interest in subjects that you really like.One day you find yourself researching topics online just so you feel like you can keep up with him in a conversation and you realize that staying relevant in your relationship takes a little too much work. You value his intelligence, but you decide to end it when you can’t quite stomach one more night talking about an old classic book that you have never heard of before.
4. The Manly Bro
He is an alpha male and his manliness was a strong turn on for you. You might have met him at the gym as he was working on perfecting his wonderful physique or at a bar while he was surrounded by all of his guy friends. He loves taking you around and showing you off to all of his friends. You love how assertive he is in your relationship and you feel so protected when you are around him.Eventually his domineering attitude gets on your last nerve and you can no longer stand going to sports bars for date nights. You will start to think that the only thing he takes seriously is his relationship with the gym. When it’s over, you won’t be sad, but you sure will miss his great body.
5. The Bad Boy
He was always the boy that your mom warned you about. You meet him though and everything your mom told you went out the window, because he gives you a rush that you can’t deny. You like the challenge of being with him. He is a mystery and you love trying to figure out what is on his mind.The bad boy should be only dated for a short period of time. You may find that one day he tells you how much he likes you and the next day he doesn’t answer any of your text messages or calls. He tends to disappear for days at a time and the moment finally comes when you realize it was fun for a while, but you deserve more.
6. The One.
When he comes into your life, you will be so grateful for all of the other guys that you dated, because they lead you on a path to meeting him in the end. He has some of the great qualities of past guys you dated, but there is something different with him. There is an undeniable click between the two of you. When you are with him, you feel like you are walking on a cloud and don’t ever want to come down.by Kasamba staff
