How to find love with spirituality?

The words 'spirituality' and 'love' are often found together in the same sentence or conversation, especially when speaking about soul mates or twin flames. But how do you know if you are spiritually connected to someone or if they are your soulmate? You may even find yourself asking, what is spiritual love after all? Some will say you need to be in a spiritually based romantic relationship or dating a spiritual person to find that connection. Others will tell you that it's something serendipitous, and when you do meet that person for the first time, magical sparks will fly, and an inner voice will assure you that this person is the one. These theories, however, lack the substance or solid proof we need to explain this phenomenon fully.

To get definition of true spiritual love, who better to reference than the Dalai Lama, who says that, " The best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other." Admittedly, this is the kind of relationship we all want, but first, we need some practical tools if we are to use spirituality to find love. If we look towards spiritual ideas like the Law of Attraction or belief in a higher power, we can see that there are a few takeaways which can help us in our day to day to lives to manifest spiritual love. For those who have not heard of the Law of Attraction, in short, it's a universal principle that explains how your thoughts create your reality. Therefore, what you think about manifests into your physical experience. The only tricky part is that our unconscious thoughts, the ones which some people call our 'auto-pilot' thoughts, have the most substantial impact on what we draw into our lives. This amount of intentional magnetism is what makes the Law of Attraction such a powerful spiritual tool when it comes to manifesting spiritual love. 'But where do we start our search?' you may ask. Here is what we suggest, and we'll make it quick. We know your soulmate is waiting!

Before you tell yourself,' I've heard it all and tried every method to find spiritual love, but nothing has worked,' have you considered that there is no search? Perhaps, this is where we're going wrong! If there is something to be learned or gained from spirituality, it is the idea that we need to rewire our brain to give up the search or the 'fight' to find love! You see, it is the search for love which is tripping the whole manifestation thing up. For instance, if we think we must find love, this means love is somewhere far out of our reach, and if it is out of our reach in our minds, then it becomes out of reach in our physical experience as well. We commit ourselves to a fictional role of being 'lost' out there in some strange abyss trying to find love. By doing this, we are communicating to the universe that we need to go on an intergalactic mission to find our soulmate. This inner dialogue creates a repetitive loop that keeps us 'searching' in-turn blocking us from the very thing we're searching for, which is love. Therefore, the first thing we need to do is: GIVE UP THE SEARCH. That's right! Tell your brain right now, that the search is over because love has already been found. Repeat out aloud or write down the following affirmation: I have given up the search! I have now found love!

Affirmations like these are powerful tools that can help to retrain your brain and use the Law of Attraction to express what you desire and expect to unfold in your life. It is crucial to eliminate the 'what you don't want' aspect and emphasize the 'what you DO want,' which in this case is: I HAVE FOUND LOVE. Replace old limiting belief systems like: "God! It's hard to find love. I have tried so hard already; there must be some curse on me!" with stronger affirmations such as: "I have found love, it feels great giving up the battle, thank you, I am now feeling blessed because I have found all the right love in my life!" Ultimately, this method is no different than updating the software on your phone or laptop because comparatively, we must update our souls, hearts, and minds with new thought patterns that enrich us with the things we want in our lives.

Moreover, it is essential to understand that we can attract more spiritual awakening and love when we tune into the frequency and vibration of love. To illustrate this, we can imagine that we're large transmission towers that radiate signals out to the universe, and depending on what signals we are sending out, this is the energy we are going to receive back. For example, you would not expect to tune into the news station on the radio and hear love songs. In the same way, this is how we must treat our own thought patterns. In order to find the radio station which has the 'spiritual relationship with a man or woman' playing, we must dial into the 'I am loved' frequency. This way, we will hear this all the time, and it will reflect on us in our daily lives. Additionally, there are some things we can do to strengthen this frequency. One of them is to make room physically for your soul mate by clearing out a drawer just for them or making room in the closet for their clothes. You could even take it to the next level by buying an extra towel for them or sleeping on 'your' side of the bed. We must act and think like they are already here with us.

Now, you might say, "Well, how can I believe in something that hasn't happened yet?" and for that, we have an easy answer. You see, when you think of something you desire for no longer than seventeen seconds to a minute, it only takes a flash for the universe to create that manifestation for you and put it into something called your 'vortex.' Now, you may be thinking, what the heck is a vortex? Law of Attraction author Abraham Hicks refers to the vortex as a vibrational place, which is essentially a magical portal of energy where the universe stores all of your desires. Not only do we have constant access to what's in our vortex, but we can also choose to manifest them into our physical experience as often as we wish. When you think about it, the universe has arranged multiple ways for whatever you desire to come to you! Yet, until we tune into the radio frequency of what we do want and not what we don't want, we will not be able to align to that desire or see it as a concrete manifestation in our lives. Therefore, if we're going to feel closer to love and understand what is the meaning of a spiritual relationship, we must allow ourselves to connect with the desire already in our hearts and souls before it appears. Thus, we must remember to repeat these four precious little words, "I have found love!" which could not only spare you plenty of bad dates but also become the simple switch from hearing radio static to those tantalizing love songs after dark!

References
2006, E & J Hicks. Ask and it is Given, Hay House Inc.
2014, D Cummings & T Hellstrom, Questions for the Dalai Lama, Hatherleigh Press.