The proverbial Scorpion has a reputation for passion and pain in relationships. Some famous examples are: Leonardo DiCaprio, Matthew McConaughey and Gerrard Butler. All Scorpios and all hunks.
Other Scorpios include: Owen Wilson, Seth Macfarlane and Ralph Macchio. Yes from "The Karate Kid" (Personal fave and shameless plug in).
Do Scorpio Men Love Drama?
Are they are all scary passionate men ready to tear your heart out at the first sign of trouble? I don't think so. Neither should you. If you're looking to enter into a
relationship with the Scorpio then you also need to put aside any preconceived notions that have been passed along over the years by way of those who just heard it from someone else. High-school stuff. You know what I mean. Unless you've actually been with a Scorpio, you can't appreciate the intensity involved.
The Back-And-Forth Game
He just told you that he loves you and can't imagine his world without you. That was last week. This week you can't get a hold of him and he's NOWHERE to be found. Sounds familiar?
It happens with him a lot! And it's not due to a lack of interest or what has been sold as truth over the years, that "he's just playing you". Scorpios actually don't play all that much. If he's suddenly playing hard to get after opening up, you're dealing with a man that has high expectations and a highly trained sense of squirrel like fear when it comes to potentially losing the déesse (goddess) that's he's finally found. Yes. Male Scorpios are prone to FUTURE ANXIETY. Meaning, anxiety driven by potential pain that can only happen sometime in the
future.
Now before you start to question why you invested so much time, energy and passion into this man, you should know that this type of behavior only happens when he's found his true life partner/counterpart/wife/everything. It's about YOU!
You are his queen. Not because he's a king and you've married. Not at all. Because you've already established yourself as a queen in your own life. Scorpio men love the chase. He would worship you if it didn't take anything away from his own appeal.
THAT'S where their passion comes from. That part about them is true in every single way. It's concentrated doses of it that feel like you've just had your breath gently withdrawn from the depths of your lungs, as you struggle to stay grounded to your reality, images literally begin to take shape in front of you. Everything fades to black. And then they stop calling. For days on end too.
Don't panic
It's all GOOD. Very, very good. If you are at that stage with this man, you only need to continue in that divine patience. That regal strength that carries all queens through troubled times. When things are at their hardest is when you rise above the storm and establish yourself.
Scorpio man’s perfect match is a woman who's been through the toughest challenges and has not only grown from them but now has a new resolve to take on the world.
“ Ambition is key ”
Not just financially. But in terms of your
career or even family life. He's looking for a wife that will keep up with his need to have the best-educated, best-dressed and well-mannered kids around. You can keep your full time career. He wants you to have friends, a deep social circle and a full life outside of him. He's not insecure at all and has complete trust in you. ALWAYS.
Scorpio Man’s Personality and Your Relationship
Being with a Scorpio man is as much about loving him as it is about loving yourself. If not more. I guess there are some things that remain true through the years. Scorpio men are not easy. But we can add that if that is who you want, there is no one else that will do. Other men might have come close, but this man, this man realigns you with a purpose in your life and helps you define who you are by sheer virtue of his love, need and desire for you.
The Scorpio man can be as sexy and confident as a Matthew McConaughey or they can be as sweet and sensitive as a Ralph Macchio. That all depends on where you've met him on his journey and what part you have in developing him into who he is.
You'll find that no matter where you meet in your lives, that there is just nothing like the flavor, the sensation, the out-of-this-world experience of being with a Scorpio man.
Prepare for launch in 3, 2, 1!
Adventure awaits on the other side!
Contributing Advisor:
Divine Messenger Zuco